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Building a Better Marriage Foundation

Building a Better Marriage Foundation

Marriage requires work and effort from each other. Marriage does not only requires the feeling of being in love but of course, it needs to have a sense of responsibility and commitment. Without these two qualities, marriage is very impossible to last for a lifetime.

Discuss Your Past Briefly

When you want someone to be your partner for the rest of your life, you must know the person very much. It is not good to live with someone whom you are doubting and you do not trust fully. Before getting into marriage, of course, you have been to the courting and dating stage where both of you exchange information for the benefit of the two of you. The courting and dating stage is not just all about strengthening your feelings for each other, these are stages and good times for the both of you to know each other well by asking and confirming about your life before meeting each other. The information you need to know and discuss should be all about your family background, educational attainment, and your career for now.

Knowing these things before marriage can make a big difference in your relationship. Aside from no doubts, things that happened in the past will never be the reason for fights and arguments in the future because you already know that someone you marry.

Make Plans for the Future

Make plans for the future and make them flexible as well. Flexibility is a word that needs to be a foundation for all marriages. If you both agree with the things you want to happen in the future then it is better and that is one of the things that can make your relationship stronger. You will know if your partner is a good one if you see him planning for your future and he always consults you before making a final decision. Both of you must plan for a specific goal and a specific time frame for each plan.

Embrace the Moment

Life is very short and it does not offer guarantees. No one knows when will a person stays here in the world so embrace the moment of being married. Build a good foundation in your marriage to a point that both of you enjoy and love it amidst the trials coming your way. Always remember that trials are always present in a relationship but these will make both of you stronger and better. Giving up in marriage is not an option to solve a problem. You need each other for every challenge coming your way. Remember that you will have a bad day but not a bad life.

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After many years of successful relationships in my own life, my mission is to pass on the blessings I’ve received to the many people seeking help in their own lives. I not only help to restore broken marriages, but also friendships, relationships, families etc. I am a faith-based marriage and relationship coach with a mission: To build stronger marriages through faith; to deepen the spirituality of the individual and the couple by accepting an open minded cornerstone of the marriage; to strengthen the communication, commitment, and respect within a marriage through a focus on gratitude, and love.