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Falling in Love Again with Your Partner

Falling in love again with your partner

After years of marriage, a common problem couple will encounter is the dilemma of keeping the flame of love alive. After the woman gave birth to a couple of kids gaining a couple of pounds too and the man of the house got used to a couple of cans of beer after dinner while watching his favorite game on TV, not bothering how he looks any more or keeping himself fit like he used to.

Falling into the pit of parenthood can take a real toll on your married life, couples will sometimes focus on their kid’s welfare and future they don’t bother to check on each other, keep the sparks of love in your relationship here are four tips that might help.

Talking. It is always the first thing that a married couple must do. Pay attention to your partner turn the TV off or put down your favorite magazine when they are speaking, and listen to what they have to say. Just as simple as learning how he or she spent their day will go a long way.

Surprise your partner with a gift. A gift can be something simple, but you should think about it and something that your spouse will love. Gifts don’t need to be expensive, a simple card with a nice note telling them how you are thinking about them. Remember when you were dating, a simple note from your partner will make your day.

Be Impulsive. When you’re out on a date instead of your usual routine be random when was the last time you and your spouse kiss in the mall parking lot or the movie? Rekindling your younger days can spice up your life or get out of the box and arrange with your relative to take the kids during the weekend and spend yours in a hotel across the city or the next town.

Public Display of Affection. There is no such thing as too much PDA for a married couple. Social norms tell us that its awkward to see young teenagers holding hands or kissing in public acting out like a married couple, then a married couple has all the right to show their love for one another, after all, they are duly licensed to do so and have the legal documents to prove it. Showing your affection will assure your partner how much you want to be with them and letting the public knows about it can do your marriage good.

These four simple tips can inspire you to spend more quality time with your spouse and rekindling those special moments can help you fall in love again and again with your partner.

After many years of successful relationships in my own life, my mission is to pass on the blessings I’ve received to the many people seeking help in their own lives. I not only help to restore broken marriages, but also friendships, relationships, families etc. I am a faith-based marriage and relationship coach with a mission: To build stronger marriages through faith; to deepen the spirituality of the individual and the couple by accepting an open minded cornerstone of the marriage; to strengthen the communication, commitment, and respect within a marriage through a focus on gratitude, and love.