Marriage Advice

Marriage Mistakes

Marriage Mistakes

There is no perfect marriage but a wife and a husband can be better partners by trying their best to make their relationship stronger, healthier, and happier. These are the problems a marriage possibly exists and these are also the things you need to do to overcome them:

Telling Your Friends About Your Problems

Friends can be your crying shoulder when things go wrong. You can ask for advice but actually, you do not have to tell all the details of your problem to a point that your friends will hate your spouse. Most women do this, if there is a problem in their marriage, they usually go to their friends but tell only one side of the story. You should avoid that because it will not fix the problem, it will make the problem worse. Sometimes, you do not ask for advice, you just want to hear someone agree with you.

Expecting Him to Change

Do not expect him to change the way you want it to be. Changing him to be your ideal husband is not good. In the first place, you marry him because you accept who he is and you love him just the way he is. He is not a robot that you can program a quality that you want in him as your husband. Do not expect him to change but help him to be a better person.

Connecting With Your Spouse

Connection is very important in marriage and it should be present every day of your life. Without connection, it is very impossible to move forward as well as achieve your plans for the future together. You need to have constant communication, especially about what is going on in your individual life and you should not sleep or end your day without talking about anything you want to say. Others forget to be honest and transparent with their spouse, worse, others forget to ask for help from their spouse especially when problems arise. You need to remember that you are not only in a relationship, but you are also in a partnership forever.

Selfishness

Once you are committed to someone, especially in marriage, being selfish is a no-no. This time, you should not think for your benefit but you should also consider your spouse. Before making a decision, you should ask or consult your spouse before giving your final answer. Selflessness is key to an effective and happy marriage life. Love is never selfish.

After many years of successful relationships in my own life, my mission is to pass on the blessings I’ve received to the many people seeking help in their own lives. I not only help to restore broken marriages, but also friendships, relationships, families etc. I am a faith-based marriage and relationship coach with a mission: To build stronger marriages through faith; to deepen the spirituality of the individual and the couple by accepting an open minded cornerstone of the marriage; to strengthen the communication, commitment, and respect within a marriage through a focus on gratitude, and love.