Going for a date should not stop if you are already married. It is still one of the great things a couple should be to strengthen their relationship because spending time together is really needed. Others are thinking that dating is only for girlfriends and boyfriends, but actually not. Dating should also be done by married couples. Here are the tips on how to make your date extra special:
Think Outside Of The Ordinary
Since you are married and you had many experiences going out for a date, it is time to think outside the box. Plan for a date that you have not yet experienced. You can search unique date ideas on Google and you can even surprise your spouse about it. Dating should not be happening every special event. Your spouse will appreciate it more if you are having an extra special date even in an ordinary day. Make sure that you are planning something that is achievable and you both will enjoy being together.
Take Things Outdoors
Forget about going to a fine dining restaurant with candle light in the centerpiece table. You can go outdoors this time. You can go biking together, and picnic without your children. For couples who are fun of extreme adventures, you can try ziplining, fishing, kayaking, or riding ATV. Once in a while, you can explore the world especially on a weekend although you already have children. Having children should not stop the both of you discovering more beautiful things this world offers.
Do Not Talk About Work or Stress
One thing you need to do to really enjoy your date is to not talk about work or anything that will make you feel stressed and exhausted. You go out together because you want to escape the busy world so avoid talking about something that can change your good mood. During your date, talk about some funny things or awkward moments you had before; something that can make your night end with a smile on your faces.
Redo your First Date
Where did you spend your first date? The usual places would be in the park, in the carnival or in the movie theather. Since you are now married and there are already many things you have been to together, you can actually do what you had during your first date. It is actually a cute thing to do and surely you will reminisce good times together.
It is better not to give her an idea about your next date. Leave her wondering and anticipating. A surprise is an act which someone could realize that she is really loved. Build an anticipation for her to get more excited for your date. You can leave a small note or send her a text message reminding her to be more beautiful today because you will have special day today.
These tips will surely help you to have a stronger, healthier and happier relationship that will last forever.